Tuesday, June 22, 2010

What Do You Think of This Anti-Rape Device?


(Blogger not allowing me to post a photo, but I will as soon as I am able)

Called Rape-aXe, the female condom is inserted by a woman much like a tampon. Of the effects of the condom on an attacker, Ehlers explained, “It hurts, he cannot pee and walk when it’s on. If he tries to remove it, it will clasp even tighter… however, it doesn’t break the skin, and there’s no danger of fluid exposure.” Further more, only a doctor can remove Rape-aXe once it’s lodged on, meaning that hopefully, police can be on standby to make an arrest when the injured assailant look for medical help.

Ehlers designed the spiked condom after seeing the devastation in the eyes of a rape victim that came to her for help 40 years ago. She consulted engineers, gynecologists and psychologists to confirm that the design was safe and now plans to distribute 30,000 of them for free during the World Cup, after which they’ll be available for about $2 each. “The ideal situation would be for a woman to wear this when she’s going out on some kind of blind date … or to an area she’s not comfortable with,” she said.

Ehlers even visited prisons to speak to convicted rapists about whether such a device would have made them rethink their actions. “Some said it would have,” she said.

Some critics are saying that the device could lead to more violence by an attacker trapped by it, and that it is a medieval solution, a criticism to which Ehlers, a mother of two daughters responded, “Yes, my device may be a medieval, but it’s for a medieval deed that has been around for decades. I believe something’s got to be done … and this will make some men rethink before they assault a woman.”

We do have one question about the design though – how does a woman take the device out herself and how can she prevent an attacker from doing the same?

Read more: South African Doctor Invents Female Condoms with 'Teeth' to Fight Sexual Assault | Inhabitat - Green Design Will Save the World

Source: Inhabitat

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Coach Pleads Guilty in Rape of Young Girls

YMCA employee James Connor gets 20 - 30 years.
"Conner sexually assaulted two girls numerous times while employed as a coach for the Melrose YMCA and used hidden video cameras to record himself in the act. Prosecutors said Conner committed the crimes over several years at his home and at YMCA after-school programs. Both of the victims were under 14 at the time.
Conner was hired at the Y in 1995 as a coach and joined the after-school program in 2001. He was arrested in February 2009."  source:  Boston Examiner

Once again someone most people would trust their children around has proved to be a predatory monster.  Its very sad that we have to be leery of men who choose jobs which involve being around children, but we do.

I feel bad for all the legit basketball coaches are out there teaching teen girls how to play a great sport and mentoring them in teamwork, but unfortunately we need to be suspicious of anyone who works with children.  We need to examine their lives and their actions, and if they put up one ounce of protest - they should not be allowed in the position to be around children.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

One Less Predator on the Streets

I have a headache.  Its been a long day, week, month...several years.  A lot has happened in my personal life but I refuse to let that keep me from writing here and doing whatever I can to reach out to other survivors of various sexual offenses.

Today was a good day in that regard.

About a year ago I met a young lady who had been through a horrific ordeal.  Today I got to watch the man that had preyed upon her admit his guilt in court and be sentenced.  Details on my other blog.

I couldn't help but wonder what was going through his mind.  Was he sorry for what he did?  Or was he just sorry that he got caught?  Either way he'll have plenty of time in Orange County Jail to think about it.

Monday, May 24, 2010

Another Online Predator Captured in Orange County, CA

Good job to the Huntington Beach police for catching yet another perverted preying on young girls via the Internet.  Story here on the OC Register.

Alvin Huynh




PARENTS:

PLEASE be aware of what your child is doing online! I'll be straight up, there was no Internet when I was a young teen, had there been I would have probably gotten myself into a lot of trouble or put myself in danger.  Young girls do not understand what they are getting themselves into when they get involved with someone on-line.  They put themselves at risk for all kinds of danger.  PLEASE don't let it happen to your daughter (or son).

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Another Little Girl Murdered

Kayleah Wilson

Her body is so badly decomposed - we may never know if she was also sexually assaulted.  But statistically chances are that she was.  How horrific.  Walking to a birthday party from her home this little girl was abducted and murdered.  When will this end?  Why does it happen so often?

Friday, May 14, 2010

John Gardner Gets Life - Two Lives Too Late

John Gardner pleaded guilty today.  He raped and murdered these two young women:

Amber Dubois, 14        Chelsea King, 17

He was a registered sex offender running around loose instead of behind bars where he belonged.

That's all I have to say.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Kyle Nachreiner - Is This Guy Serious?

A few weeks ago I wrote about Kyle's pity party that he's throwing.  Remember good old Kyle?  He was one of the three men convicted of gang raping an unconscious girl on a pool table and video taping it as evidence to be used against him.  Not the brightest guys.

Kyle doesn't like being a registered sex offender, its cramping his style and making it difficult to get dates.  Poor Kylie - he wants to meet a nice girl that wants to date a rapist, but no such woman exists.  

Thanks to David Whiting of the OC Register we now have an interview with the victim of this crime.  ("Jane Doe" if you ever read this, thank you for speaking out.  I think of you often.)

You can read it for yourself here.

I'll just leave you with one quote from this scum, his attitude it says it all.  Absolutely no remorse.

Wearing mirrored sunglasses, Nachreiner whined he couldn't go swimming because he has to wear a GPSdevice. As for being a registered sex offender, he said, "It's emasculating."

Monday, May 10, 2010

Melissa Huckaby Pleads Guilty To Murder of Sandra Cantu

It was one year and one month ago today that I wrote about this exceptionally horrific crime.  All sexual abuse is evil, and certainly murder is, but this story is uniquely horrible.

Its not often that women are sexual predators and/or murder little girls that happen to be friends with their own daughters.  And on top of that, she stuffed her body in a suitcase and threw it in a pond of some sort.

I will never forget the surveillance video of the trailer park where little Sandra Cantu lived.  It shows her skipping happily along as she heads over to her little friends house.  A sweet 8 year old without a care in the world unknowingly walking into the home of her murderer.

I don't even want to think of the terror and pain she may have felt as this woman abused her.

They say Melissa Huckaby must be insane or mentally ill to have committed such a heinous crime --- I'm sure that's true!  Healthy minded people wouldn't do such a thing BUT NEITHER WOULD MOST MENTALLY ILL people!

She is dangerous and needs to be kept away from society.  I heard she's getting 25 to life.  That sounds fair to me if they stick to the life part.

My heart literally aches tonight when I think of this precious little girl's family.  How does a mother endure such a loss?  I think a part of parent's heart must die when they lose a child for any reason, but this is the worst possible way to lose anyone.

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Is there an overabundance of perverted criminal sex offenders among professional athletes?

Lawrence Taylor

It sure seems that way. I know there are plenty of non-proffessional athletes committing the same heinous crimes against women, they just don't get all the media attention.

The latest one makes me cringe. 51 year old Lawrence Taylor arrested for rape, charged with calling a pimp and having a 16 year old girl brought to his hotel. I am not into football but even I recognize his name.

Check out this quote from the NY Times:

"...was inducted into the Pro Football Hall of Fame in 1999 and is considered one of the best defensive players to play in the N.F.L., had a 13-year career with the Giants that was marred by problems with drugs and alcohol. He was suspended several times by the N.F.L. and was arrested multiple times for drug possession. In the past few years he has re-emerged as a public personality, including working in front of the camera on N.F.L. broadcasts. He has said his drug problems are in his past."
Perhaps Mr. Taylor (aka scumball rapist of underage women) no longer has a drug or alcohol problem but he has a moral and legal problem. Disgusting.

And this girl - chances are she's a victim of being used as a prostitute. Sounds like she may be a runaway that got caught up doing what she had to do to survive on the streets or support a drug habit? Who knows, but I hope she gets help.

Saturday, May 1, 2010

This is Ridiculous

This is the kind of thing that raises my blood pressure.  Jury acquits accused rapist based on her tight jeans.  They said that there is no way he could have got her pants off without her help.  Its not the first time a rapist has walked away from his crime using the "skinny jeans defense".  Its obviously bullshit.  Its another case of a woman being blamed for her own rape, for "asking for it" or agreeing to it.  Why would she report it as a crime and go through the humiliation and hassle is it was consensual?  Most likely she wouldn't.  I am not saying that there has never been a woman who falsely accused a man - but its the exception NOT the rule.